Friday, November 16, 2012

30 Days---Day 28

What is my love language?

I will share with you my top 3 love languages...

1) Quality time
2) Acts of Service
3) Physical Touch

I took the love language test and the above were my results. I do believe they are fairly accurate. I love to spend time with people, and I love having good, deep conversations about life, with my friends/family. They are my favorite. Just being open and honest with your feelings, opinions, and thoughts about something. Talking about anything and everything. I love having one-on-one time to get to know a person. And I like when people feel comfortable around me, and trust me enough to share with me about their life...even the hard/difficult/sad/embarrassing/not so easy to talk about stuff.

On the other side of that, I like when I am able to truly open up and share my own thoughts, feelings, and thoughts about whatever is going on in my life. To be able to be myself around people. Something that doesn't happen easily with me. Not that I don't trust people, but I guess I like it when people take the time to get to know me. I'm not going to share my life story with everybody I meet as soon as I meet you. But if you get to know me, if you take the time to ask and find out, I will share it with you!

As far as the acts of service, I am a pretty independent person. Sometimes I like to do things myself and not ask for help. This isn't exactly a good thing though. But I do like it when people volunteer to help me out with something or even just do it without me asking. I definitely don't complain about that! But I'm not one to always come out and ask for the help.

Physical touch....I love hugs! Although if I am just meeting you, I'm probably not going to hug you. But that also depends on the situation. If someone I am just meeting or barely know came and gave me a hug, I wouldn't stop them! I'm just not going to be the one to initiate the hug. :) It goes along with what I talked about above...feeling comfortable around someone. If I'm just meeting you, I'm not going to feel as comfortable walking up to you and giving you a hug as I would someone who I have known for 3 months, 6 months, 8 months, 1 year, or 5 years...

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